This morning, The Boy’s transport van was ten minutes early. If you know nothing about autism, you probably still know that routines are king, and if you mess with a routine… Well, watch out.
I heard the first honk at 6:38am. The Boy had just decided he didn’t want to wear the pants we had chosen, but wanted to wear the blue ones. I frantically searched for the blue ones, found them, gave them to him and he said, “Their inside out!” I quickly turned them right side out, handed them to him and asked him to put them on, while I found a pair of socks to put on his feet myself. That done, I headed to the front door, opened it, and stuck out a finger (no, not that one, although I was tempted), to let her know we had heard her and were coming as quick as we could.
I returned to The Boy’s room, and told him to go put his shoes on. I grabbed his poptarts in a baggie, and his bookbag, and tried to hurry him out the door. “Where are my glasses?” he wailed. I set everything down, and went into his room to get his glasses.
She honked again.
Really? Did you think I didn’t know you were there? I already came outside in my robe to let you know we were coming, but you needed to honk again?
I gave him his glasses, gathered all of his things, and shooed him toward the door. “I need you to tie my pants! You’re not going to tie my pants?” I got him on the porch, gave him his things and tied the drawstring on his pants. I gave him a kiss and sent him on his way.
When I came in, The Man said, “Really? Why was she so early, and why did she have to honk twice?” Exactly. “You need to call them and tell them they can’t do that to him. He needs his routine, and they definitely don’t need to be honking like that.”
The Man advocating for The Boy.
Not just supporting me, because he knew I was a bit frantic and anxious from the situation the driver created (which he did, as well, asking more than once if I was OK), but actually defending and advocating for The Boy.