Things are going very well at The Boy’s school. Last week we got a note home that he had placed 2nd in his class in a pyramid game (whatever that was), and had earned a 100% on a social studies test. I reflected that even though he doesn’t have hours of homework a night like he did at his previous school, he still seems to be learning the material – they must be doing things right.
I also got a note from The Boy’s band teacher wondering why he hadn’t been able to play his test for his teacher. I hadn’t known there was a test, and hadn’t even known they had moved on from some small ensemble material they had been playing before and after break. At the time, I explained to his teacher that I was very ill, but could The Boy play it next week, so I could have some time to work on it with him.
And then the poop hit the fan.
We practiced it once on Sunday, the first day I really felt human again. And we took Monday night off (we generally practice every other night or so). Yesterday, I start to get some emails from the band teacher which seemed to suggest The Boy is incapable of playing the test. He got upset with me when I told him we had only practiced the test once. He suggested maybe The Boy should play trumpet, because he’s had other kids with autism have some luck with that instrument…
Here we go again.
I’m disheartened that teachers doing what I used to do seem incapable of thinking outside the box to include students with special needs. They seem not to have a clue that IEPs apply to them, as well. And to have a parent like me as a resource in educating their student, and to almost disregard it…
I’m the one who’s at a loss.