When you tell people you are engaged, they immediately ask you something along the lines of, “Now what?”: Have you set a date? Where will you live? What are your plans????
While I’m not going to say that we haven’t thought about these things (because I am a planner, after all, and that is just who I am), I must say that I’m having a great time just reveling in the feeling of being engaged, of having someone who loves me utterly, who has done one of the most vulnerable and romantic things a man can do, which is propose that we commit our lives to each other.
And perspective is an amazing thing. I’ve done this before, and it’s almost amusing to look at a bridal magazine and all the infinite, intricate pieces of a wedding that are out there as ideas, and products, and kits, and… whew! It’s a relief to have this experience behind me that makes me shake my head, laugh a little, and say to myself, “So unnecessary”…
So while I’m thinking about the “getting married” part (which pieces are important, and which pieces just really aren’t) because weddings are fun, I’m also thinking about the “Now What?” after the wedding. Being a wife, blending a family, the big changes in my life (our lives!), and the one man who loves me enough to take it all on with me.
Have a beautiful day!
The nice thing is that you can do as little or as much as you really want! No pressures. No requirements. Enjoy what evolves! I wish you and yours sooo much happiness.
And I’m really feeling the “less is more” vibe 😀 Thanks, Lynne!
I say relish your time as a fiance as long or a short as you want too! I remember that feeling! I wanted to let you know that tomorrow on my blog I’m announcing that I’ve nominated you for a 2012 Blog of the Year Award.
Wow! Thanks, Sylvia!